Quotes on Parenting, misc. (not comedy... worth reading)
Every child comes with the message that God is not yet discouraged of man.
~Rabindranath Tagore
What's done to children, they will do to society. ~Karl Menninger
The words that a father speaks to his children in the privacy of home are not
heard by the world, but, as in whispering-galleries, they are clearly heard at
the end and by posterity. ~Jean Paul Richter
There's nothing that can help you understand your beliefs more than trying to
explain them to an inquisitive child. ~Frank A. Clark
Children are the living messages we send to a time we will not see. ~John W.
Whitehead, The Stealing of America, 1983
Nobody has ever before asked the nuclear family to live all by itself in a box
the way we do. With no relatives, no support, we've put it in an impossible
situation. ~Margaret Mead
The lack of emotional security of our American young people is due, I believe,
to their isolation from the larger family unit. No two people - no mere father
and mother - as I have often said, are enough to provide emotional security for
a child. He needs to feel himself one in a world of kinfolk, persons of variety
in age and temperament, and yet allied to himself by an indissoluble bond which
he cannot break if he could, for nature has welded him into it before he was
born. ~Pearl S. Buck
Children are one third of our population and all of our future. ~Select Panel
for the Promotion of Child Health, 1981
Children are unpredictable. You never know what inconsistency they're going to
catch you in next. ~Franklin P. Jones
Children need love, especially when they do not deserve it. ~Harold Hulbert
Your children need your presence more than your presents. ~Jesse Jackson
You don't really understand human nature unless you know why a child on a
merry-go-round will wave at his parents every time around - and why his parents
will always wave back. ~William D. Tammeus
Always kiss your children goodnight - even if they're already asleep. ~H.
Jackson Brown, Jr.
To bring up a child in the way he should go, travel that way yourself once in a
while. ~Josh Billings
It's not only children who grow. Parents do too. As much as we watch to see what
our children do with their lives, they are watching us to see what we do with
ours. I can't tell my children to reach for the sun. All I can do is reach for
it, myself. ~Joyce Maynard
Don't worry that children never listen to you; worry that they are always
watching you. ~Robert Fulghum
It behooves a father to be blameless if he expects his child to be. ~Homer
Children are a great comfort in your old age - and they help you reach it
faster, too. ~Lionel Kauffman
Most of us become parents long before we have stopped being children. ~Mignon
McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
If you want children to keep their feet on the ground, put some responsibility
on their shoulders. ~Abigail Van Buren
If there is anything that we wish to change in the child, we should first
examine it and see whether it is not something that could better be changed in
ourselves. ~C.G. Jung, Integration of the Personality, 1939
Don't handicap your children by making their lives easy. ~Robert A. Heinlein
Simply having children does not make mothers. ~John A. Shedd
Children have more need of models than of critics. ~Carolyn Coats, Things Your
Dad Always Told You But You Didn't Want to Hear
There are two lasting bequests we can give our children. One is roots. The other
is wings. ~Hodding Carter, Jr.
Each day of our lives we make deposits in the memory banks of our children.
~Charles R. Swindoll, The Strong Family
What a child doesn't receive he can seldom later give. ~P.D. James, Time to Be
in Earnest
If your children spend most of their time in other people's houses, you're
lucky; if they all congregate at your house, you're blessed. ~Mignon McLaughlin,
The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
If you want your children to improve, let them overhear the nice things you say
about them to others. ~Haim Ginott
Children begin by loving their parents; as they grow older they judge them;
sometimes they forgive them. ~Oscar Wilde
Kids spell love T-I-M-E. ~John Crudele
A parent who has never apologized to his children is a monster. If he's always
apologizing, his children are monsters. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second
Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
The guys who fear becoming fathers don't understand that fathering is not
something perfect men do, but something that perfects the man. The end product
of child raising is not the child but the parent. ~Frank Pittman, Man Enough
My mother protected me from the world and my father threatened me with it.
~Quentin Crisp, The Naked Civil Servant, 1968
The hardest part of raising a child is teaching them to ride bicycles. A shaky
child on a bicycle for the first time needs both support and freedom. The
realization that this is what the child will always need can hit hard. ~Sloan
Wilson
You don't have to deserve your mother's love. You have to deserve your father's.
He is more particular.... The father is always a Republican towards his son, and
his mother's always a Democrat. ~Robert Frost
Most American children suffer too much mother and too little father. ~Gloria
Steinem, New York Times, 26 August 1971
Good, honest, hardheaded character is a function of the home. If the proper seed
is sown there and properly nourished for a few years, it will not be easy for
that plant to be uprooted. ~George A. Dorsey
Children are natural mimics who act like their parents despite every effort to
teach them good manners. ~Author Unknown
Character is largely caught, and the father and the home should be the great
sources of character infection. ~Frank H. Cheley
When you teach your son, you teach your son's son. ~The Talmud
There are no illegitimate children - only illegitimate parents. ~Leon R.
Yankwich
A child enters your home and for the next twenty years makes so much noise you
can hardly stand it. The child departs, leaving the house so silent you think
you are going mad. ~John Andrew Holmes
Setting a good example for your children takes all the fun out of middle age.
~William Feather, The Business of Life, 1949
Your children vividly remember every unkind thing you ever did to them, plus a
few you really didn't. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
In bringing up children, spend on them half as much money and twice as much
time. ~Author Unknown
Why are men reluctant to become fathers? They aren't through being children.
~Cindy Garner
If you don't believe in ghosts, you've never been to a family reunion. ~Ashleigh
Brilliant
We all grow up with the weight of history on us. Our ancestors dwell in the
attics of our brains as they do in the spiraling chains of knowledge hidden in
every cell of our bodies. ~Shirley Abbott
In some families, please is described as the magic word. In our house, however,
it was sorry. ~Margaret Laurence
An ounce of blood is worth more than a pound of friendship. ~Spanish Proverb
Our most basic instinct is not for survival but for family. Most of us would
give our own life for the survival of a family member, yet we lead our daily
life too often as if we take our family for granted. ~Paul Pearshall
The great advantage of living in a large family is that early lesson of life's
essential unfairness. ~Nancy Mitford
The happiest moments of my life have been the few which I have passed at home in
the bosom of my family. ~Thomas Jefferson
Friends are God's apology for relations. ~Hugh Kingsmill
The informality of family life is a blessed condition that allows us to become
our best while looking our worst. ~Marge Kennedy
We cannot destroy kindred: our chains stretch a little sometimes, but they never
break. ~Marquise de Sévigné
Other things may change us, but we start and end with the family. ~Anthony
Brandt
Family faces are magic mirrors. Looking at people who belong to us, we see the
past, present, and future. ~Gail Lumet Buckley
In the United States today, there is a pervasive tendency to treat children as
adults, and adults as children. The options of children are thus steadily
expanded, while those of adults are progressively constricted. The result is
unruly children and childish adults. ~Thomas Szasz
Little girls are cute and small only to adults. To one another they are not
cute. They are life-sized. ~Margaret Atwood
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